For the moments when you think: “There must be more to life than this.”
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Perhaps, on the outside, everything looks fine.
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You are managing. You are coping. You are doing what is expected of you.
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But somewhere along the way, you may have lost touch with yourself.
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Maybe you feel stuck, disconnected, or unsure of what comes next.
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Maybe you are longing for change but don’t know where to begin.
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Maybe you miss the person you used to be, or you are ready to discover a new version of yourself.
I offer a warm, compassionate and honest space where you can slow down, explore what is happening beneath the surface, and reconnect with who you truly are.
Together, we can navigate change, understand what matters to you, and rediscover the confidence, freedom and joy that may have been waiting to be found.
Because life is not about becoming someone else.
It is about coming home to yourself.
Have you lost touch with yourself?
Life has a way of changing us.
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Sometimes it happens gradually.
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We adapt
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We take on responsibilities
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We become the person others need us to be.
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The strong one.
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The caring one.
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The achiever
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The one who keeps going.
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The one who tries to make everything work.
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The person who keeps everything together.
And somewhere along the way, we can lose sight of ourselves. Perhaps you are wondering:
“Who am I now?”
Maybe you feel caught between wanting to be needed and wanting to feel free.
Maybe you have built a life that looks right on the outside, but something inside feels unsettled.
Perhaps you are:
- Questioning a relationship or the direction your life is taking
- Adjusting to a new country or a new chapter
- Facing changes you didn’t expect,
wondering what happened to the person you used to be - Longing to feel more like yourself again
These moments can feel confusing, lonely and overwhelming.
But they can also be the beginning of something powerful.
- A chance to pause.
- To listen.
- To reconnect.
Not to become someone new, But to rediscover the person you have always been underneath everything you have carried.
This is where I can help!
A space to understand yourself and find your way forward.
Therapy is not about being told who you should be or what decisions you should make.
It is a space to slow down, become curious about your experiences, and begin to understand yourself more deeply.
Together, we can explore:
What has changed?
Sometimes we know something feels different, but we don’t always understand why. We can gently explore what has happened, what may have triggered these feelings, and what your experiences mean to you.
What you have lost?
Change often involves loss, a relationship, a sense of identity, a familiar life, a dream, or the person you thought you would become. Understanding these losses can help you begin to heal and move forward.
Who you are becoming?
Change can make us long for who we used to be. But we cannot return to the person we were before life changed us,
perhaps we are not meant to.
The person you were deserves compassion. They carried you through everything that brought you here.
Together, we can honour your past, grieve what has been lost, and create a new version of yourself, one that carries your experiences, your strength and your wisdom forward.
Because growth is not about becoming someone else.
It is about becoming more fully yourself.
"The curious paradox is that when I accept myself as I am, then I can change"
- Carl Rogers
How I can help
Life rarely changes in one dramatic moment. Sometimes we simply reach a point where something inside us says:
“Something needs to change.”
You may not have all the answers yet. You may not even know exactly what feels wrong. Together, we can explore what is happening, understand what has brought you here, and help you reconnect with yourself.
Feeling stuck or disconnected?
Perhaps you feel as though you are going through the motions but no longer feel connected to yourself. You may be questioning your choices, your direction, or the person you have become. Together, we can explore what is keeping you stuck and what you need to move forward.
Life transitions and starting again.
Change can be exciting, but it can also bring uncertainty and loss.
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Moving country.
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Changing careers.
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The end of a relationship.
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A new chapter in life.
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Becoming someone different from who you once imagined.
These moments can challenge our sense of identity and belonging. I can offer a space to process what has changed and discover who you are becoming.
Relationships and finding yourself again.
Relationships can be places of love, connection and belonging, but they can also be places where we slowly lose parts of ourselves. Perhaps you are questioning your relationship, feeling unheard, or wondering where you fit within it.
Together, we can explore your needs, your values and the person you want to be within your relationships.
Rediscovering confidence, freedom and joy.
Many of us spend years trying to be the person we believe we should be.
- We achieve.
- We care.
- We provide.
- We keep going.
And then one day, we may quietly wonder:
“Where did I go?”
Perhaps you miss the parts of yourself that felt curious, playful, confident or free. I can help you reconnect with your strengths, rediscover your voice and create a life that feels more authentic.
- Not a perfect life.
- Not a life without challenges.
But a life where you feel present, connected and able to experience moments of genuine joy.
A life where you give yourself permission to take up space, laugh more, explore more and perhaps even dance around the kitchen again.
You don't need to know exactly what you need before reaching out. Sometimes the first step is simply recognising:
"I want to understand myself better."
And that is where we begin.
Starting Counselling
Starting counselling may be a daunting, and finding the right counsellor is important. I offer a free 20 minute online conversation, where you can find out more about what is involved, as well as ask any questions you may have, before making a decision.
You may have questions like
- “What shall I say?”
- “What is expected from me?”
- “Am I saying the right thing?”
- “What if I can’t attend a session?”
- “What happens if I’m not ready?”
- “What will happen?”
All these are natural questions and can be addressed when they present themselves or during the free 20 minute online conversation.
"If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain"
- Irvin D. Yalom
What to expect
You may expect a space where you can talk freely and untangle your thoughts emotions and feelings, it is a space where you are heard in a welcoming and non-judgemental, environment.
I prioritise your well-being. I am committed to maintaining the highest standards of confidentiality and respect, ensuring that you can speak openly and honestly about your concerns without judgment.
During your first session we can explore the reason that bought you to counselling, as well as your expectations and goals. Your first session will provide insight into your world and the world of counselling.
Taking the first step towards seeking counselling is a brave and significant decision, and I am here to support you every step of the way. Together, we can embark on a journey of self-discovery, growth, and healing.
Services & Costs
Find Out More Chat
Imagine have a friendly chat with a cup of tea, to answer all your questions, and to see if you like me and want to share your story with me...
It's important to gain trust in our relationship and this is the first part. I'll answer your questions, and explain how this all works.
It doesn't cost anything, and usually last for 20 minutes.
Online Counselling
Online Cousnsellig is just as effective as face-to-face, plus you have the added bonus of flexibility, to support remote working patterns, and your daily life.
I use different platform to meet your needs.
Fees
Sessions last for 50 minutes
Online £50
I do offer concessions, please contact me for more information.
Wellness Growth & Accountability
Unlock your full potential, boost self-confidence, and achieve personal growth.
Take control of your life and reach your goals.
Minimum of five session, and then a follow up to ensure everything is on track.
Online £70
Fees include:
telephone consultation, 50 minutes online session per week, Accountability check-ins, Whataspp messaging service.
Telephone Counselling
Telephone Counselling offers the same confidential service as Online Counselling.
£40 per session
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards"
- Soren Kierkegaard
If you're ready to take the first step towards a more fulfilling life, please don't hesitate to reach out. You can contact me to schedule an appointment, ask questions, or learn more about my services. I look forward to joining you on your path to wellness and personal growth.
Remember, you're never alone on your journey. I am here to listen, support, and empower you to live your best life.
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